By Emily Alison and Lawrence Alison
In Rapport: The Four Ways to Read People and Talk to Anyone in Any Situation, the authors present four key principles for building rapport with others:
Empathy: Understanding and sharing the feelings of another person.
Alignment: Finding common ground and shared interests.
Mirroring: Subtly imitating the other person's body language, tone of voice, and facial expressions.
Validation: Acknowledging and accepting the other person's thoughts and feelings.
The book provides practical advice on how to apply these principles in a variety of situations, such as job interviews, first dates, and difficult conversations.
Fifteen lessons from Rapport:
Rapport is essential for building strong relationships.
Anyone can learn to build rapport.
The key to building rapport is to be genuinely interested in the other person.
Pay attention to the other person's body language.
Be mindful of your own body language.
Find common ground with the other person.
Ask open-ended questions.
Be a good listener.
Be respectful of the other person's opinions.
Be willing to compromise.
Be patient.
Be yourself.
Practice makes perfect.
Building rapport takes time and effort.
The rewards of building rapport are well worth the effort. NNL.
